The author and illustrator
give us the idea that the family in Kisses for Daddy is a loving family. We
can tell this from the caring actions of the characters and the gentle facial
expressions and body movements. There are lots of smiles, open arms and cuddles
in this book. There is a lovely warm feeling in this story and the
pictures.
Just the fact that Daddy
Bear wants a kiss before Baby Bear goes to bed tells us that the family is
loving or affectionate. He does not get cross when Baby Bear won’t give him a
big bear kiss but patiently comes up with other kisses he could have
instead.
We talked about the Daddy
bear being the parent who took Baby Bear to bed. Some of us thought if the
characters were stereotypes, then maybe we could have expected Mother Bear to
take Baby to bed. We thought it was
interesting that we only met the Mummy bear once and that she was sitting down
having a cup of tea and reading a book. Someone thought Daddy bear may have been
giving Mummy a break. Another thought Daddy wanted some quality time with Baby
Bear. Baby Bear gives his Mum a kiss because he loves
her.
Daddy Bear doesn’t get
angry when Baby bear was procrastinating or putting off going to bed. He gently
begins taking him to bed and actually gets Baby Bear to get ready for bed
anyway. It was quite gentle to call Baby Bear a grumbly bear. We decided that
Daddy Bear cares whether Baby Bear is cared for, he carries him, cleans him, he
dresses him, tucks him in and wants him to get his
rest.
We talked about who put us
to bed when we were younger and whether there were ‘Mum’ jobs or ‘Dad’ jobs in
our families. We also thought about our families and whether we had two parents
and only one child, like the Bear family. There were many different families in
our class. We were not sure in the end what was
typical.
In the end when Baby Bear
tells Daddy Bear to come back for a bear kiss – and a bear hug – we know that
Baby Bear really loves Daddy Bear and doesn’t want him to miss
out.
We decided we would have
been disappointed if Baby Bear hadn’t called Daddy Bear back for a kiss. We
could almost feel the big bear hug at the end.
We are still ‘the no-name’
rappers!!! at this stage.